Well, hello! I've had a pretty busy few days, and have some interesting things to tell you about, but I'd rather postpone the in-depth details until such a time when I have photos to supplement. And since my camera is charging right now, that time will not be today. But! I'll give a run-down of my recent activities.
Wednesday: I had a four hour meeting with my language partner, which I was rather nervous about. But happily it turned out okay! We went out to a fruit market, which was really lovely and kind of intense. (Good: so much fruit! Beautiful fresh fish, too! Bad: smelly, dirty, FLIES EVERYWHERE). I bought some apricots and apples, but I haven't actually eaten any of them yet because 1) I keep forgetting fruit goes bad here quicker than in the US, and 2) a lot of it had big bruises that are only getting worse. Oh well. It was a good experience. Then we went to a shopping district, Ibrahamiyya, and my language partner showed me around some stores. It was fun, we looked at purses and shoes, but I felt kind of bad since I am very picky and indecisive. Every time we'd go into a store (and this is true for pretty much all stores here of any kind), it is a much more personal experience than in the US. You say hello to everyone working there, they all immediately come over to try and assist you. I felt really guilty every time I didn't buy something, like I had to explain why I didn't like their products enough. Oh well. I think my language partner understood. She also was being nice and suggesting things for me to try on and such, and that is always awkward when you have to say that something suggested is really not your style. You know? And clothes in Egypt are very weird, the majority of stuff I wouldn't really think to wear ever. But I have faith that there are some good things out there.
After shopping we took a minibus to meet up with her best friend at a club (remember I told you about clubs, it's more like a country club). It was right by the ocean, and the sun was getting close to setting. Very pretty. Her friend was really sweet, I was kind of shy but I think it was okay. They are obviously really close, and became focused on each other when they met up, so I was kind of left out. But I didn't mind. We sat in the club, but then left to eat our food outside (we bought sandwiches and couldn't eat them in the club), then got some amazingly delicious cotton candy. Seriously, it was so good! It melted really quickly, turning all caramel-y and drippy. Lovely. Then I went home, met up with a friend, and got cake and took a walk. A good day!
Thursday: Class. Nap. Fourth of July party? I heard that our program had rented the university stadium for a party with frisbee and BBQ, so I went at the advertised time (5pm). Of course no one was there yet, except people from another program. It was awkward a little. We all sat in the bleachers, and there was an Egypt vs. USA soccer game between people affiliated with our program. Egypt won. We ate cotton candy and a bit of shwarma, I think. Pretty much everyone I know this weekend either went to Cairo or was planning to go to a Tamer Hosni concert Thursday night (he's a pop singer who I think wants to be the Justin Timberlake of Egypt...not even close). I didn't have tickets, so I was feeling a little morose. But! Fortunately, my friends had the hook up through these guys that we keep hanging out with (they took us to the beach last weekend), and apparently not many of them had tickets either. I got to tag along, and I was super pleased.
The concert....it was okay. I mean, yeah. I did not care for the music that much, and the structure of the concert was not pleasing (too many slow love ballads, too much slowing down then speeding up, basically my complaint boils down to NOT ENOUGH DANCING). I was also exhausted, since of course Tamer Hosni went on much later than he was supposed to. Also? Freaking Tamer Hosni was NEVER DONE. Seriously, it was like the third Lord of the Rings movie, you know, when it just never ends? It was like that. So I guess I was just cranky, we were all hungry, and I wasn't digging the whole situation. But it's good to be social. An interesting thing: the guys we were with are very protective of us, to the point where it makes me uncomfortable. They constantly look out for people getting close to us, and actually hold their arms out to kind of fence us in. I really didn't think that there was any harm coming from a guy standing in front of me, but apparently they did, since they made him move away. It just made me feel even more like we stood out, like this little group of foreigners being separated in the middle of the crowd. Oh well.
After the concert, I decided I should probably be social SOME MORE, so I went with everyone to a cafe (the sort of place with shisha, tea, juice). I was beyond tired, and not really making conversation, but I had the most delicious thing! It was lemon juice (so basically sugary lemonade) mixed with vanilla ice cream (it must have been melted, because it was not very thick at all). What resulted was basically like melted lemon ice cream. It was SO GOOD. I need to experiment and make my own some time.
Friday: I was supposed to go on a critical mass bike ride thing (critical mass is where a ton of people all ride bikes together?), but it was early and I didn't know what time, and I was beat. So, I instead got up for breakfast at 10:30, met up with my friends (who at this point consist of mostly Michigan and Maryland people, plus a few Texas), and went to the pool! There is an outdoor pool at the university stadium, and apparently we have two lanes reserved 10-12 on Fridays (allegedly 'no one is there at that time' so it is a good time for girls to go). We got there a bit closer to 12, and lo and behold there were tons of people there, including a large swim team composed of little kids (majority boys). Oh dear. There were all sorts of people (mothers mostly) in the stands watching, and no free lanes. Luckily, we asked one of the coaches, and he cleared a lane for us. So, we swam (I felt weird in a bikini but OH WELL). And discovered that in addition to the million little boys, there was also a group of scuba divers (the pool had a very deep end for diving, etc), who at one point were lurking right underneath our lane. Very awkward. The pool was probably like 50 meters long, and swimming was EXHAUSTING. I always find swimming to be so tiring, it is so different from running. It was really good, though. I swam 10 laps!!!
After swimming we went to McDonalds for ice cream, got water, ate lunch, and then showered and met back up to watch a movie in one girl's room. Remember how I went to see an Arabic movie a while back, called Omar wa Selma 2?? And it was ridiculous and mildly (extremely) full of terrible male-female interactions? Well, one of my friends bought the first Omar wa Selma, so we decided to watch it. Added bonus: Tamer Hosni stars in both films as Omar! There is no escaping him. The film was pretty ridiculous (we only watched the first half). It looked like it was shot in 90's USA (everyone had terrible clothes and hair), and was just strange in general.
Basic Plot:Omar was seeing this girl, then she dumped him, and he is so sad. There are emotional music video montages of them and her and him like weeping or some nonsense and like sitting at home shirtless under a blanket on his sofa with candles lit everywhere staring at the phone, etc, etc. Then it's like him messing around with his goofy dad, and then it's like he's such a ladies man and there's this girl in his ridiculous bedroom and his dad knows about it, and then they joke about women, and Omar like shoves the girl out the window or something. Then, he's sad about his ex. Then, he meets Selma and is all goofy silly guy at her and she's not interested, but she walks away and then later smells her hand or something (he shook her hand) and gets all dreamy about her Tamer Hosni smelling hand. I don't know. THEN there's all this weirdness where he acts like a clown trying to get her attention and she's all "not amused" but she secretly is, then he like slashes her tires and then acts like a jerk about changing them for her. Then they both like roll around in their own beds, separately, and moon about daydreaming about the other, and over it all is this soundtrack of conversations between the two of them that I'm not sure ever happen in reality, but then suddenly they are dating and at a dinner party together. And THEN Selma's ex is there, and calls her on the phone, and she goes outside to tell him to go away. But! Omar sees that he called on her phone or something, and angrily drags her out of the place. They drive to a secluded outlook spot, and argue hardcore, and he slaps her, and then she cries about her horrible past relationship with this other guy, and they make up because Omar does something goofy. LITTLE DOES SHE KNOW Omar turns out pretty much the same as the other guy in the end.
Whew. Aren't you glad you know that? ANYWAY, after the movie we went to a wedding party (in Arabic the various celebrations for weddings are complicated, so I'm not sure what the technical English name for this would have been). It was very intense. When we were invited we were told it was a Henna Party, which is traditional for the day before the wedding. I guess maybe it still was considered a Henna Party, or I don't even know. It was basically like a village-wide carnival celebration thing held in a field and it was ridiculously.....it was an experience. More to come on that later, as soon as I can get photos and videos up online.
We got home from that late (it was like 2 hours into the countryside, I feel like!), and then today I went to Carrefour (wal-mart basically) with one of my friends. Luckily she had to get lots of stuff, too, so we strategically made the rounds and got all we needed. I got a small basin thing for holding stuff and also for hand washing clothes, some tupperware, some better shampoo and conditioner, orange juice AND apple juice, milk, yogurt, chocolate biscuits (TWO KINDS), some other stuff, 80% chocolate, and GRAPES! And water. Upon arriving home we ate lunch, and happily I got invited to even more stuff.
I really like how things are going here, it's like I somehow accidentally have found myself having a group of friends that I am considered a part of, if that makes sense. A weird thing that happened a while ago with the Texas people was that they had plans to go out to eat, and one girl (who I quite like) asked me if me and my crew were coming. It was sort of strange, like first of all I have a crew? And second of all, am I not in yours? It wasn't a bad thing or like a mean girl moment or anything, it was just a weird social interaction moment. It's easy to forget that with some groups you need to work to be included. Anyway, back to the present, I've been doing pretty well this past week (and weekend especially) with a great group of people, all of whom also keep hanging out with the Egyptian guys from Rotary who hook us up with everything. So, it's a good set up!
Later on today I am going with some of the girls to this market that is especially for women, I'm not sure what to expect there but I'm glad to be going, maybe I'll find some good scarves or jewelery? And tomorrow there is a soccer game in Cairo, Egypt vs. some other African team (I feel like it is a World Cup qualifier game?). The Egyptian guys called to invite us, and it is very hard to say no to them, so we are going. No word yet on whether this is a good idea or not (I do have class, we'd be missing lunch, when would we get back, we'd be driving, etc, etc...), but OH WELL I guess we'll just see! I decided that for the next little while I'll go along with more things even when I don't really want to. I'll agree to more things?
Special bonus side note of no importance: I washed all my grapes, removed them from the stems, and put them in my tupperware. And I bought a cup for drinking juice and milk. This pleases me very much. And! Next weekend! Mt. Sinai AND Sharm el-Sheikh!!!!